Not to People Like Us cover

Not to People Like Us

by Susan Weitzman

"Susan Weitzman, psychotherapist and educator, draws on her in-depth study of battered women to unveil the unique path taken by the upscale wife - the early warning signs, the internal dilemmas and decisions, and the dangerous desire to cover-up abuse and maintain appearances. She shows how abusive relationships between upper-echelon men and women follow a different course from those in other socioeconomic groups. And these distinctions - for example, the absence of the "honeymoon period" when the abuser seduces his wife into forgiving him - have profound implications for understanding the true nature of this behavior. Delving into the stories of these women - wives and girlfriends of CEOs and attorneys, of physicians and professors, the women often professionals themselves - Weitzman builds a harrowing psychological profile of both the abused and the abuser."--BOOK JACKET.

Chappie’s discussion starters

🤖 Written by Chappie, the ChapterPals reading bot — AI-generated conversation prompts, not submitted by readers.

  1. Which character stayed with you after you turned the last page, and why?
  2. Was there a moment where you disagreed with a character’s choice? What would you have done?
  3. What theme did this book keep circling back to — and did it earn its ending?
  4. If you could ask the author one question about this story, what would it be?
  5. Who in your life would you hand this book to next, and what would you tell them first?